Michigan 2L Responds

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Last week, we brought you the story of a Michigan 2L that got caught up in a prostitution scandal with a university professor. The story generated a lot of discussion, including some comments apparently generated by the 2L herself.

A long comment was posted in the thread about the 2L, and sent to U-M Law listserve telling the other side of the story:

I’m the girl who got into the mess with the professor. I posted a version of this in the comments on ATL, because using my uniquename email on lawopen means outing myself, which gives the press permission to publish my name. Fortunately, one of my classmates has offered to transmit this message to you on my behalf. Those of you

who don’t know who I am yet will find out soon enough.

We can’t confirm that the 2L in question actually wrote this message. But we can confirm that the message was sent to the entire U-M Law community, and that many of our sources believe the message to be authentic.

Clear as we can tell, the Michigan 2L wants and deserves an opportunity to clear the record while maintaining her anonymity:

It’s difficult reading all of these things written about me without being able to offer an explanation/defense/vignette:

After the jump, you can read the full message.

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MICHIGAN 2L — OPEN MEMO

Dear Law School,

I’m the girl who got into the mess with the professor. I posted a version of this in the

comments on ATL, because using my uniquename email on lawopen means

outing myself, which gives the press permission to publish my name. Fortunately, one of my classmates has offered to transmit this message to you on my behalf. Those of you

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who don’t know who I am yet will find out soon enough.

Most of you probably don’t know what it’s like to push a boxcutter into your own wrist

and neck. Or what it’s like to walk home from the psych ward, and set to the task of

cleaning a room covered in your own blood. Or how humiliating and degrading it is to be

penetrated against your will. You probably read the newspaper story, but you should know that it contained factual errors, and that it omitted significant details from the police

report. I had no idea what I was walking into, and I’m lucky that I’ve made it through

alive.

A month after I was assaulted, I attempted suicide over the whole mess. I’ve been unable

to sleep or study, for fear of this story being published. I’ve had PTSD rape dreams.

Everything I’ve worked for my entire life, personally, academically, professionally, has

been harmed, and I’ve spent $20,000 trying to put it all right again. And I have, in

fact, been prosecuted and will be required to pay a debt to society. All I can hope is

that the bar will see that this was an aberrant moment in the life of a severely depressed, suicidal, isolated person.

Reading some of your comments makes me want to go crawl under a rock and never come out. But some of your comments have made me think that maybe I can show my

face again. It’s difficult reading all of these things written about me without being

able to offer an explanation/defense/vignette:

I worked my way through undergrad on my own, doing crazy hours on top of a full course-load. In fact, I’ve worked every kind of menial, low-paid job since I was 15; I’ve

never thought I was above any kind of work, or better than anyone else I worked with,

because we were all there together. But last semester I’d been so depressed that I could

barely even get myself to class, let alone keep up with my finances. In April I realized

I couldn’t pay the rent for May, and my parents weren’t an option. Nor was anyone else,

because there weren’t really very many people in my life at that time. The housing crisis

made it so that I couldn’t get an additional loan without a co-signer. I should have

found some other way, but at the time none of my thoughts were very healthy.

I love the law just as much as you do, and I like to think about the ways that it shapes

the world we live in. I watch a lot of movies, and go to the gym when I can. I have dear

friends at other law schools who I try to keep in touch with. I’m a quiet, introverted,

sensitive person; I think I’ve read every post on lawopen and ATL, and taken them all

very personally. I used to be a proud atheist, but now I know that God saved my life the

night I tried to take it. I also know that God kept the man in that hotel room from

killing me, because he was completely out-of-control.

I went to the police the following morning because my vision was blurred from having been hit in the face. The bruises from his belt didn’t go away for a week. I later found out

that this man had targeted other sex workers, making him a serial sexual sadist. Violent

men target sex workers because they know sex workers are isolated, fearful, and ashamed, and won’t go to the police.

Going to the police seems like a stupid move, as many of you have pointed out. But I was

afraid for the next woman he “contracted with.” And I felt so worthless and used that I

didn’t care about throwing everything I’d ever worked for. I felt so terrible, and I

thought that the police would make it right… that’s what the justice system is about,

right?

It’s clear to me now that the AAPD thinks this is funny. That’s why they’re not going

through with the assault charge.

What I did was wrong, and I’m a criminal for having done it. But if this had been any

other misdemeanor like drug use/possession, DUI, public intoxication, open container,

gambling, vandalism, petty theft, or simple assault, there wouldn’t have been a two-page

article in the paper. And if you got rid of all of the lawyers who had done one of the

above at some point, there’d be a severe shortage.

I also feel compelled to say that despite what many of you have expressed, I am not

disease-ridden; my lifetime number is still under 20. I consider myself to be well informed in the area of reproductive rights and health, and I think everyone has a

responsibility to inform their partners of their sexual history, not just sex workers.

I’m recently tested, and I don’t have AIDS, herpes, Hep B, syphilis, the clap, or

chancroid. And I don’t judge those people who have contracted an STD at some point,

because if you’re not a virgin, you take a calculated risk every time you have sex. If you have had sex with more than one person and you don’t have a viral STD, it’s because

you’re lucky.

I’m not writing because I want pity. I’m writing because the future lawyers who read this

need to understand that the answer is seldom ‘yes’ or ‘no,’ but often ‘it depends.’ Good

people do bad things sometimes, for a variety of reasons. The reason we have ‘bright

line’ rules is because there is so much gray out there. And it’s only through compassion

and understanding that anyone is able to make sense of it all. My crime was a cry for

help.

Finally, I wish to apologize for having brought negative attention to this prestigious law school. But I expect that every amazing thing you do will outshine my mistake- it

really is an honor to be a member of such an accomplished community of people. I hope

that you won’t shun me, or completely expel me from social/academic/service life at the

University. Many seem to think about this as if it were some complicated hypothetical on

a Torts exam. But, I’m still the same girl you knew before. And right now I’m struggling

with the reality of public humiliation. I haven’t directly talked to any of you about

this because I imagine some of you will want to distance yourselves from me, and I don’t

wish to impose myself upon you; I don’t really know who I can still call a friend, but

I’ll find out soon enough.

– That 2L Girl (‘A’ & ‘384’ on ATL)

Earlier: University of Michigan Law Student Should Have Come to ATL First

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