{"id":30852,"date":"2024-09-13T12:12:32","date_gmt":"2024-09-13T16:12:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/abovethelaw.com\/?p=1031373"},"modified":"2024-09-13T12:12:32","modified_gmt":"2024-09-13T16:12:32","slug":"conquering-conferences-less-awkward-school-dance-more-savvy-networking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abovethelaw.com\/legal-innovation-center\/2024\/09\/13\/conquering-conferences-less-awkward-school-dance-more-savvy-networking\/","title":{"rendered":"Conquering Conferences: Less Awkward-School-Dance, More Savvy Networking"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1029708 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/abovethelaw.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2024\/01\/GettyImages-1319470839-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Business conference access cards on table\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">Ed. note<\/span>: This is the first article in a series providing a comprehensive guide to networking at conferences.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ever felt like a conference was a throwback to your high school dance, minus the bad music and questionable fashion choices? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">You&#8217;re not alone. It&#8217;s a world where everyone&#8217;s trying to be the cool kid. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Imagine stepping into the bustling conference hotel, a hive of activity, where clusters of lawyers resemble old school cliques and not knowing where to begin or what to say<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> What do you do?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Navigating this social labyrinth requires a strategy, especially when it comes to engaging with individuals. It\u2019s about finding that perfect opening line, akin to choosing the right song for a dance. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Just like in those teenage years, there&#8217;s a bit of nervous excitement mixed with the hope of making a connection. You&#8217;re not just reaching out to exchange pleasantries; you&#8217;re looking to strike a chord, to find that common ground that turns a brief encounter into a meaningful conversation and maybe even a business relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">In the sea of conference networking, one-on-one conversations can be incredibly powerful. They offer a unique opportunity to dive deeper into someone\u2019s world without the distractions of a group setting. Personally, I find these interactions more rewarding.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">For instance, I always look for a personal connection point during these conversations. It could be their alma mater, hometown, or even a shared interest. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If someone mentions they went to the University of Chicago, I instantly share a snippet of my childhood in Chicago until third grade. This often leads to more personal questions, like &#8220;Where did you live after Chicago?&#8221; <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Just like that, we\u2019re no longer just exchanging formalities; we\u2019re sharing stories, breaking the ice, and yes, metaphorically dancing!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Solo Moves at the Networking Dance<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Making the first move in networking, much like in dancing, requires a mix of confidence and tact. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Each approach is a dance step, an opportunity to initiate a rhythm of conversation. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Whether you&#8217;re a networking novice or a seasoned socializer, these one-on-one encounters are where individual connections begin. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Here are a few opening lines to consider, each one an invitation to start a new dialogue, a solo dance of sorts, in the bustling ballroom of the conference.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&#8220;Hi, I&#8217;m [Your Name]. Is this your first time at this conference, or are you a seasoned attendee?&#8221;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&#8220;Good [morning\/afternoon\/evening], I&#8217;m [Your Name]. I&#8217;m on a mission to meet new people today. How&#8217;s the conference treating you?&#8221;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&#8220;Excuse me, I couldn&#8217;t help but notice your [something you noticed about them]. Hi, I\u2019m [your name].\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&#8220;Hi, I&#8217;m [Your Name]. I&#8217;m trying to make new connections here. What&#8217;s been the highlight of the conference for you?&#8221;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&#8220;Hi, I&#8217;m [Your Name]. I saw that you were in the last presentation.\u00a0 What\u2019d you think?\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">As we&#8217;ve seen, engaging in one-on-one conversations at conferences is an art that combines professionalism with a personal touch. In the next article of our series, we\u2019ll delve into the delicate dance of handling rejection and the dynamics of group networking. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Stay tuned for more insights on how to gracefully waltz through these common networking challenges.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>The Solo Networking Dance: A Recap\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2714\ufe0f Approach with confidence: Use ice-breaker lines to initiate one-on-one conversations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u2714\ufe0f Find personal connection points: Share stories or experiences that relate to the other person&#8217;s background or interests.<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><em><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1075132\" src=\"https:\/\/abovethelaw.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2024\/09\/IMG_6509-150x150.jpeg\" alt=\"Sejal Patel\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/>Sejal\u00a0Patel\u00a0is the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sageivyconsulting.com\/about\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Founder of Sage Ivy<\/a>, a New York-based consultancy specializing in empowering attorneys\u00a0with innovative practice development strategies. With over 20 years of experience,\u00a0Sejal\u00a0applies her expertise in assisting clients convert their relationships into revenue by applying individualized strategies to their networks and leveraging their unique styles authentically.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p class=\"summary\">Finding success in a world where everyone&#8217;s trying to be the cool kid.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":136517,"featured_media":1029708,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[279,96,114],"tags":[102,11361,22,422,112,7],"class_list":["post-30852","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-biglaw","category-in-house-counsel","category-small-law-firms","tag-biglaw","tag-bonus-news-alerts","tag-in-house-counsel","tag-networking","tag-small-law-firms","tag-technology"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.3 - 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